GOT Final Season – Episode 3

SPOILER ALERT

For those that have not watched last night’s episode, there are spoilers so if you don’t want to know what happens, please come back after you’ve watch GOT season 8 episode 3.

FIRST – My Take-aways from the Battle of Winterfell.

1. Everything that happened has been foretold. It all makes sense.

2. While many people were disappointed, the episode was EPIC!

3. Now the battle to win the throne begins. Remember, this is Games of Thrones, not Games of Epic Battles. They had to overcome the white walkers to earn the throne.

4. Cersei still sits on the iron throne and she’s a mad queen by anyone’s logic.

5. While this is hilarious, it must be updated and we need to discuss. The Red Queen is a hero. WTH!?!

6. Will the North remember and where do Daenyrus and Sansa stand now? They have an unfinished conversation.

7. What about Jon and Daenyrus? She saved him when he was surrounded proving her love and loyalty? Or does it? Did she save him because she needs him? That would be practical. Would she really give up the throne? It’s all she’s worked for her entire life.

8. Whose left that is completely loyal to Daenyrus? The Mormont lineage died in Ep. 3. But as an aside, can I say that they went out in Grand style. They are true warriors I’d always want them on my team.

9. Who will stay in the North? Who will continue for the Great Battle? How many people are left to fight? And can we discuss Samwell always lives to fight another day? Stop underestimating the underdog. Are there enough people to fight this battle for the throne?

10. Who is going to kill Cersei? Is it Jamie? Arya? Tyrion? Sansa? All of them?

There is a Hollywood Reporter article confirming who died in this episode. You have to read it.

I can’t wait for this wee’s predictions and discussions. That’s all for now!

I Am Not My Hair – Part 1

Recently, I’ve been thinking about cutting all my hair off. I actually shaved the sides with longer Locs on top. I wear it this way to work so that no one sees my shaved hair but often now wear it a ponytail or bun at home. It is a huge adjustment from my long, full Locs but I’m adapting. (check next post for past hair pictures)


When I read this story about the TSA machines possibly singling our Black Women because of their hair, I had a flashback!

When I transitioned from relaxed hair to natural hair, I wore different types of hair styles. However, working with corporate America and in the political system, it was necessary for me to remain conservative. In addition, I traveled – A Lot! I was in different cities and states on a weekly basis. Sometimes I drove, if my destinations were close enough. Most times, I was flying or catching the train. It gave me time to work 🧐

When they say this story is late, it could have been written more than a decade ago. No matter how conservative my hair, I was always stopped. And I was not alone. Any woman at that time who pioneered this natural phenomenon that we are experiencing today can attest to it.

One time, my braids were pinned back in a tight bun because braids were not considered professional or conservative at the turn of the century. I was asked to attend this meeting at the last minute. Because I had Bobby pins in my hair, they forced me to take them out and scan my hair. At the time, I really think they just wanted to touch my hair 😉 Black Hair always fascinates some.

If the TSA scanners are now targeting Black women, we must address this and address it now! I can only imagine what is happening to women today. I don’t travel quite as often as I did then, but I am always prepared for the pat down and hair check. It has become part of my life. I wonder, 🤔 will they continue to check my hair when I cut it all off. I suspect that they may!

I am not my hair!

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Game of Thrones Season 8, Ep 1

When I first started watching Game of Thrones (GOT), the 4th season had just ended. My co-workers talked about it every Monday and Friday during lunch and I was completely lost, uninformed and unashamed.

HBO was part of my Verizon Fios package so I caught an episode one night and was not impressed, AT ALL! Like many who pick up in the middle of a season or episode, I did not know who the characters were or how they were related and missed most of the references. I didn’t even watch the whole episode.

Then, my co-worker challenges me to just watch the first episode – Season 1, Episode 1. “Just watch it!” That’s what he asked me to do and I did. And my life has not been the same. The episode was okay but it kept my attention. I honestly thought it was nice but I wasn’t sure if I would continue watching, the. This happened.

And again my life has never been the same.

So now we have come to the end of this journey. Join me as we watch what happens when Jamie and Bran reunite since this unforgettable occurrence, as the White Walkers travel South, while the pack returns home because they cannot be successful alone, as unusual alliances are formed and our fantasy comes to an end.

And the whole time, I’ll share these special treats.

Be like Bradley Cooper

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On Saturday, Bradley Cooper revealed that he auditioned for the legendary Spike Lee and was rejected. When I heard this story I immediately thought about his tenacity, his willingness to never give up, his belief in himself. Sure he probably had good days and bad days, sometimes wanting to give up on his dreams but he didn’t. He says that he was rejected THOUSANDS of times yet he persisted. He continued to audition. He trained, honed his craft, and never gave up.

I attended a Paparrazzi conference yesterday where the keynote speaker was one of the company’s founders Trent Kirby. He encouraged us to fail. That may sound funny but is t that exactly how Bradley Cooper and so many others have achieved their success. He failed. He failed to get that part with Spike Lee but did that deter him. NO! We are going to fail but we must fail forward, get back up and try it again. Be engaged in our business, our dream; fail, learn from that failure and try again.

Be like Bradley Cooper! Remember that great people fail all the time. We may not see all their failures. We may not see any at all, but as a student of history, Trent reminded me yesterday that greatness doesn’t come from always winning. In order to truly be great, there will be times when you fall short of your goals. The key yo greatness is how you respond to your failures. Do you give in and give up? Or, do you pick yourself up, fail forward, learn and try again?


Let’s Go Crazy 😜

The title of this post is the my theme for the year and one of my FAVORITE Prince songs! It always made me happy to hear it, usually followed by dancing around and making some people a little uncomfortable. I was HAPPILY dancing and singing like no one watching or caring.

Being happy is not always easy for everyone. It involves knowing and being true to yourself. I spent most of my life doing what I thought other people expected me to do. I didn’t want to rock the boat. I didn’t want anyone to be upset with me. I wanted to be and have friends.
See, I’m an only child. My parents divorced when I was young. My MoM was great, and I did everything she asked me to do. I always wanted to be the perfect child: independent, smart and caring. In all of that, I forgot to be myself. So after 40-something years of living, I’m being me. It’s not always popular or right or wrong, but it will be me.
So from where does Happy come? It comes from within!